How To Protect Your Energy During Healing Sessions
Hey, I’m Danielle from Third Eye Mama and today I want to talk to you about something that is really important, which is:
How To Protect Your Sacred Energy During Your Healing Sessions With Your Clients
Now, I want to talk to you about this because protecting your energy is extremely important.
When your energy is open, you are vulnerable to energy leaks and other invading energies that come into your field. That can take the form of energy parasites, that can take the form of toxic relationships in your life, energy weapons, and other types of interference – not just from your clients, but from the environment as well.
Also, you’re leaking out energy when you’re not protecting it… and when you’re leaking out energy, that means that you are expending so much more than you’re getting and in the context of working with your clients, that means you can be feeling drained after.
If you’re not just feeling drained, you may also notice that you feel: disoriented, floaty (like you’re not really attached to your body) and in so doing, you might develop coping mechanisms like eating afterwards (and not always eating good foods, but maybe going towards foods like chocolate or junk foods, foods that are not good for your body).
You can also go the other way too, like showering or trying to do things that bring you back into your body and while showering / connecting with water isn’t necessarily a bad thing… it’s good to protect your energy so that you don’t HAVE to do that after a session.
I want to talk to you about a couple of the things that you can do to actually protect your energy and they might not be what you think.
The first thing is to:
Develop Healthy Boundaries With Your Clients
These boundaries are things that are spoken in a loving way, they’re communicated, and they are clear.
One of them is staying within your time constraints.
Whether your sessions are an hour or 90 minutes long, really make your best effort to stay within those time constraints. When you have holes in your energy field and especially if you have an issue with receiving, you might find that your sessions are always going over the scheduled time.
I remember doing a session where I stayed double. I did a 60 minute session and I ended up staying for two hours. Did I get paid to stay for two hours? No. That’s not why I did it. I thought I was doing it to help that person, but really in reality, it was not a healthy relationship.
I allowed my boundaries to be crossed multiple times because I did not clearly state them. I thought that if I gave more and more and more of myself that I would be able to help her more and more and more and unfortunately that wasn’t the case.
The more open or lax I was with my boundaries, not just with this one client but with others as well, the more toxic it became, so I was losing energy.
I was losing time and of course money as well.
When you’re giving away your extra time after your sessions, when you could be taking in other clients and helping other people, so I’m standing here before you telling you the importance of protecting your energy because I know firsthand how painful of an experience it can be to have your field completely open where you’re leaking energy out and you’re allowing toxic relationships in.
This actually brings me to my next point which is:
Only Taking On Clients That You Are Thrilled To Work With
This might seem like a novel concept, right?
Can I actually say no to clients?
I have news for you… you can.
You can say no, and I DO say no when I’m uncomfortable with something or when I don’t feel like I am truly the person who’s able to serve them and I’ve done this multiple times… I just refer out.
I have a number of different healers, practitioners, and people that I work with who would be happy to take on a client or a situation like that.
When you refer out, you’re not actually losing anything.
Your ego might tell you, “Oh no, I have to hold on to everybody that wants to come to me for a session because there’s lack. There’s not enough to go around.” But truly, when you are focused on service (and not out of desperation), you can refer out and know that you are actually truly serving that person.
When you align them with a practitioner that better suits their needs and you make room for clients to come into your life that are better suited to you – you can actually serve and feel excited to help them.
Your sessions become uplifting. They become energizing and fun. They’re not something that you have to dread and they are not something that you have to feel resentment about later.
I also did that. I had that mentality where, “Oh my gosh, I have to help everybody because I can”, you know, I thought because I developed certain skills in these areas (even though they weren’t the most pleasant things to do) I didn’t feel like working in these particular areas in this person’s life.
I felt like I had to do that so that I could serve them.
But really when you align to your truth and who you really are, and you’re honest about who you want to serve and who you feel uplifted to work with, the dynamic shifts and you start to have much better, much higher quality sessions as well. You’re bringing your best self to the table.
And when you’re working in alignment, it’s easier for you to charge more if you want to charge more, (if that’s something that maybe you’ve been meaning to do).
It’s easier for you to feel confident in your abilities because you’re really shining and you know that you’re helping the person that you’re working with.
There’s so many perks to and I could talk a lot more about this, but I want to get back to protecting your energy.
Another way you can protect your energy is to:
After you’re done with your session, remember to cut cords with them.
Remember to actually clear your field of that negative energy and you can do that using white sage and smudging your field. That’s one way to do it.
There’s another method which I talk about in my book, “Awaken Your Psychic Ability: For Spiritual Entrepreneurs“.
If you look in there, you’ll see a protocol that you can use for clearing your energy and it’s very effective with disconnecting from your client and making sure that you’re not actually holding onto foreign energies.
It doesn’t mean that the client is negative, however you don’t want to be carrying that energy with you throughout the rest of your day and of course, into subsequent sessions as well.
It will impact your ability to read while feeling good and energized.
Make it a priority to protect your energy because you really want to be at your best during each session. You want to have energy, feel vibrant, inspired and also be able to RECEIVE during your sessions as well.
You don’t want to be just putting OUT energy. Receive and enjoy your work.
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Danielle Fagan is a published author, Intuition Mastery Coach, Certified Emotion Code Practitioner and has helped millions of people develop their psychic abilities and discover their soul purpose through her 1-on-1 work, workshops and online articles.
The day that she discovered her psychic abilities was the day she met God in a coffee shop. She learned over many Divine dialogues, trial and error and endless practice exactly how to access her psychic abilities with confidence and accuracy. She strongly believes that each person already has psychic abilities and strives to teach others HOW to unleash their God-given superpower with accuracy and clarity